Little kids are always fun and cute, and weddings are a great time to throw in some extra kid cuteness. Ring bearers have been a part of weddings for as long as I can think of, so it’s something we are all used to seeing. Normally, they walk down with this really annoyed look on their faces as quickly as they can. If you’re looking to make your ring bearer special and have them actually enjoy it, we’ve got some great ring bearer ideas.
Ideas to Make the Ring Bearer Fun and Interesting
From my experience, flower girls love their jobs much more than most ring bearers. I think that’s because most little boys don’t love the idea of weddings or getting dressed up. That can be changed though by making the ring bearer role fun and interesting.
Ring Security
Boys don’t like wearing dress up clothes, but they do like pretending. Heck, I still am that way. One popular idea is to add that pretend aspect is to designate the ring bearer as the “Ring Security.” This can involve giving them a toy badge, a case, and having them wear some sweet glasses.
Suspenders and Bow Tie
Another charming idea is to dress the ring bearer up in suspenders and a bow tie. I feel like this is a little less restricting and they can play with the suspenders. This classic look adds a touch of elegance and charm to the wedding party, making the little one stand out as they walk down the aisle.
A Flag Bearer
For a unique twist, consider having the ring bearer act as a flag bearer. I don’t know if this would be for LARPers (Live Action Role Play) or people that have their own family coat of arms, but I love the idea. They can carry a personalized flag or banner down the aisle, making it feel like medieval times or Game of Thrones (not the red wedding though).
Adult Ring Bearer
To add a humorous element to the wedding, you could opt for an adult ring bearer. Recently, people have been having adult flower girls (boys), but I think an adult ring bearer would be just as funny. He could come out dancing and have a fanny pack. This unexpected choice can entertain guests and squeeze some fun into the ceremony.
More Than One
You know what’s better than one ring bearer? Two! I’ve seen this happen a few times. Usually the bride or groom has two nephews and wants to get them both involved. The good new is usually one is older and can help guide the young one in the right direction and be in charge.
Nautical Style
I don’t know why I find this look so awesome and classic, but I love the idea of dressing the ring bearer in a sailor-inspired outfit. It reminds me of something from the Little Rascals or some other old show. This nautical style is both adorable and fitting for a beach or seaside wedding.
Power Wheels Electric Car
I had a great childhood, but there is one thing I never got as a child: a power wheels electric vehicle. Maybe that’s why I still find them so interesting. This is another hilarious idea. You have the ring bearer drive a Power Wheels electric car down the aisle. In some situations, you would let them drive it. The one time I saw this at a wedding, the car was actually remote controlled so someone in the back was guiding them. This fun and unexpected entrance is sure to delight guests and create lasting memories.
Have your dog do it
For animal lovers, involving your dog as the ring bearer can be a heartwarming and entertaining choice. Dressing them up in a cute outfit and training them to carry the rings can add a special touch to your ceremony. In most situations, I would suggest having someone guide the dog down. Even the most trained pup can get distracted with all the new friends around.
Fun Ways to Carry the Ring
The normal and traditional way to do things is to have the ring bearer walk down with a pillow. That’s fine and all, but I think there are more creative and fun ways to do it. Thinking outside the box when it comes to how the rings are presented can add a fun and personal touch to your ceremony.
A Helium Balloon
Consider using a balloon into the ring bearer’s walk. The balloon could have a message on it, match the color them, or even be used for something special. I like the idea of having the ring inside the balloon and popping it to get it out, but I think that’s too risky. Instead, have confetti in the balloon and after the first kiss, pop it to send a shower of confetti over the couple.
An Antique Box
One of the things traditionally used by the bride is something old or borrowed. For a vintage touch, using an antique box to carry the wedding rings can bring a sense of nostalgia and elegance to the ceremony. It can be something from a family member, so it connects the present and past or you can choose a beautifully ornate box that complements your wedding aesthetic that you simply buy on etsy or other online stores.
A Humorous Sign
I’m always up for a little bit of humor. Yes, wedding ceremonies are supposed to be special and formal, but they can still be fu. To add some humor, consider having the ring bearer carry a humorous sign that has some funny message. I would suggest having a normal message on one side like, “Here comes the bride” and then on the back a funny one. This way, after the ceremony is over, the ring bearer can show the funny side.
A Meaningful Book
I was an English teacher for quite some time, so I love the idea of using a book. This, of course, only really works if books are special to the couple. The book could be something that has deep meaning to them or a special.
Conclusion
While the ring bearer has a pretty small part in the wedding, I think it’s one of those moments that can really have a big impact on the child (or adult) and all the people in attendance. There’s nothing wrong with the traditional ring box or ring bearer pillow, but I think it’s always good to add a touch of humor or your personality into the wedding.